why are women so much more vindictive than men??

just to illustrate my point (as i am sure most women are outraged that i could suggest that such a thing could be true even though it so clearly is!) i was talking to an ex of mine not so long ago about why it was she ended up playing semi-pro ladies footie for chelsea when she was an arsenal fan ..... and what she told me backs up what i say ....... apparently she had a trial for arsenal back when she was 13 and they rejected her with a thanks but no thanks ....... a couple of years later she took part in a tournament and was approached by arsenal, fulham and chelsea ladies asking her to sign up ...... after thinking it over she decided if arsenal didn't want her back then there was no way they were gonna get her now, she had a look at fulham but it involved a lot of travelling and so she went and joined and chelsea ...... contrast it with a boys view of rejection - we just go back again and again for trials every year till we get too old with the club of our dreams lol

still i am sure she must regret it now ........ fulham went fully pro just after she rejected them (and i mean days after lol), arsenal not just went fully pro but have gone on to win everything in both the domestic and european arenas, and i do mean everything lol ...... whereas chelsea were not just shite and won absolutely fuck all but also the coach of the youth teams happened to have a daughter playing for them - in the same position as my ex! needless to say she didn't have a chance and in fact ended up having to retire by the age of 22 due to injuries inflicted in training!

i would love to say that had taught her a lesson but she is still as stubborn and vindictive now ....... but then she is, after all, female ;oD